Do Any Guys Ever Actually Successfully Hook Up Through the W4M Casual Encounters Section of Your Local Craigslist?
A: Yes, it works for both guys and girls (from both personal and anecdotal experience) but there are tips and tricks for maximizing success rate. Please note that all this experience is from the and may vary by location.
As a chick, your greatest weakness is the fact that traditionally, 99.9% of all CL Casual Encounter ads have been spam, and so your post will be invariably marked as spam within an hour, no matter how good or non spamesque it looks. This is particularly hilarious now (May 2017) because Craigslist changed their Spam algorithm, eliminating maybe 95%+ of fraudulent posts, but because user flagging behavior has not caught up to the actual validity of posts, posts still get flagged the same way.
As such, because your post will only stay up for half hour, you will need to re post it it a few times before you get a sufficient amount of high quality hotties. Each hour in local casual encounters generally gets you about 60-90 replies. I suggest just spending the first couple of days looking over the sorts of email you get for patterns.
Dick pics. The sort of guy who sends a dick picture is probably not going to be worth your while if you want someone who can make conversation too. 46% of all your emails will be this…
Illiterates. These dudes send responses with poor spelling and grammar as well a decided lack of anything interesting to say. 52% of your emails will be this.
Template responses. Men who are experienced at cas will have a set of template responses they use to reply. Be careful of these guys because who knows what sorts of diseases they have or how mediocre they look. 22% of your emails will be this.
Well written articulate responses that address your post directly. These are guys who are generally new to CL CAS and are probably who you want to try to pick. Of course, the problem is that a lot of the guys who are good writers are not going to be attractive, so you"re kind of screwed here. Also, for really good template responses, you might not be able to tell immediately, which is why you should spend the first day or two reading to get an idea of who is on the service. 13% of your emails will fit into this category but maybe only 4% will be both attractive and well spoken.
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Now, once you"ve taken some time to look at these responses you can pick out a few guys. And I do mean a few guys, because 82% of those guys are going to be a wash… either not showing up, being nothing like their photo, or otherwise creepy.
So, to answer your original question, you"re looking at an overall .5% success rate if you have any standards. So that means you need to get 211 replies to have one successful casual encounter.
Now, if you think that"s bad, let"s look at how guys fare. Unlike the w4m posts in my area, the m4w posts are 96% legitimate. The problem is that with so many legitimate posts and so few girls, most guys are NOT going to get any sort of response. Now, please note that I am average to below average in looks, and I do not lie in posts, so all my data is filtered through that.
On average, it takes 3 posts in the m4w section in my area of cas to get 1 non spam response. This is with peak time posting and other such optimizations (more below). A sample post I"ve used in the past is as follows.
So… it"s Monday night and I thought I had plans, in fact, two of them, and both fell through so now I"m just sitting here lonely but not wanting to call it a night and dork it out with a book or a videogame. I guess what I"m looking for is just hot horny girls near me who I can have a nice sex chat with, and perhaps some cuddling and maybe a bit of kissing. Basically a bit of a connection and some physical intimacy. We can watch a movie or something and see how things work out. No pressure really.
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I"m an attractive (my mommY says so), flamboyant (I once learned this word for the SAT), well educated (in your mom jokes), fairly witty (see above) guy (this part is true!). I"m 5"10", gainfully employed and well educated, Caucasian, drug and disease free, single, with good hygiene, and full of enthusiasm for a variety of activities, not to mention fond of commas.
Attached to this post is often a picture of a kitten or the like. This is because a post with any picture automatically gets more responses, but attaching a photo of myself is counter productive.
Below is the strategy I have found to work the best to get laid in my city.
Have a slightly different post for every day of the week. I haven"t made any recently, but in 2013, only 29% of the post had to be different to pass CL spam filters.
Post every day between 8 and 10pm for maximum exposure, but only once unless you have two completely different posts to test.
As mentioned above, attach a photo to every post, but unless you"re hot, make it not of yourself.
BE PATIENT. You"re going to be at this for a while before getting anywhere. Stats below.
Forget standards unless you"re high on the scale yourself. If you"re average, no girl you"re going to sleep with is going to be above a 7.
So, the next thing to note is that every post you make is going to get 4-6 spam responses. That"s fine, after the first couple of weeks you"re going to be good at filtering those out. Oh and use a fake email address, because you"re going to end up subscribed to all sorts of crap.
So, I mentioned above that 1/4 posts gets a response from real sexy sluts near me. 1/3 is going to express an interest in seeing after subsequent communication. 1/4 of those is actually going to meet you. In all the cases I"ve met the person the encounter has happened, so at least that part is good. Thus, the final tally is that it will take you an average of 51 posts to get a single girl to sleep with you. As you can only make 1 post a day, if you are diligent in this, it will take just under 3 months of daily posting for one encounter. Still, once you get into the routine, it"s fairly low maintenance (5 minutes per day on average), and yields small but perhaps meaningful dividends.
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I did my own research of this subject. to find a reallycool easy going employed, has his own place not mommy"s house, has his own car, not gfe car) guy takes a lot of time posting the right posts and then reading all the responses carefully. There"s a lot of idiots out there so take it with a grain of salt. I had to explain I was posting for research to the five I narrowed it down to. I decided to take it to a meeting up for coffee. One of the 6 was the dude in the pic they sent me.
Out of the 6 the one who sent his real pic was the only attractive guy out of several hundred dudes. I never hooked up in the sack with this hoe but we created a good friendship and chat/talk once a week. I found it best to ask responders to put in subject line something not in the orig post so its easier to screen out spam and bots. For example I asked responders to put “kymykat loves ice cream" in their responding email to me. that worked out really well for me.
Where can I find women that want sex in tonight?
– Really, two sites always worked for me. One is JustBangMe and the other is 4SexOnly. Not sure about but they should work there too. If you ask me which one I like more? Well, 4SexOnly worked better for me but that is juts my opinion
My Experience With 7 Days on Craigslist"s Casual Encounters
Many people use Craigslist to find roommates, cheap furniture, used cars or part-time jobs. But there"s another function: Casual sex near me.
I decided to dive into Craigslist"s “Casual Encounters" — a section made for no-strings hookups — to see if any of what I assumed about that virtual place was true. Is it populated entirely by perverted sexual deviants, serial killers, prostitutes and scammers as rumors insist? Or can two regular people really make the connection that the section"s name suggests?
I should admit that I had no intention to actually hook up with hot girls, should the opportunity arise, if for no other reason than it would be inappropriate and manipulative to an unwitting partner to do so and write about it. But it"s not a stretch to say that even if you abstain from the goal, spending a week on Casual Encounters can teach you a lot about human beings and how the web has changed how we pursue one of our most essential and important desires.
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It goes without saying that the content of this article is not intended for children or those made uncomfortable by such topics. But if you"re interested, read on for the story of my seven days on Craigslist"s Casual Encounters — my failures, near misses, discoveries, insights and successes. Following that, I interviewed two women to learn how they used the site successfully for their own fulfillment.
I began with a listing announcing myself to the women of my city.
Each day I tried a different approach to see what would be most effective, though I never lied or posted fake photographs. One day my message was intended to be sweet and normal; I suggested starting with drinks and fun conversation to see if we had chemistry, then going back to my place to cuddle on the couch with a movie and see where that led. Another day, I described it as a rebound. In yet another, I explicitly detailed sexual activities and used very aggressive language.
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Ultimately, only the “sweet and normal" was successful, even though very few posts by women had that same tone (more on that later). I received about a half-dozen responses each day. Most were scams, some were men, some were prostitutes, and just one was legit.
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All the responses I got from real local hot babes on my first day weren"t all from women — they were from men. I made it very clear in my post that I was only interested in women, but a large number of men chose to ignore that.
They all offered oral sex. I responded to them politely, saying, “Just interested in women, but thanks for the offer! Have a good one." Most didn"t write back after that. One responded: “Really man, can be cool and relaxing."
I began to suspect that no women actually used the site. The stereotype is that women are interested in relationships, and that only men would be interested in totally casual sex, right? We know that"s not true, though. In fact, I was inspired to write this article when a friend told me many of her female friends had owned up to using it.
But where were girls looking for men close by for sex?